Sort of stuck here I have worked hard not to be confrontational. .to think of the long term goal work on myself GAL and while I am in a better place. .I think I am looking too door matty. H made it clear he wanted out a divor e ...the affair was a coincicidence..etc..I have never made any ultimatums.there were no grounds to make them..I have kept friendly contacts.validated and that's it. However on the weekend I believe I was treated badly and I want to express my feelings. He was disrespectful to me as a friend..let alone a wife but settle with friend..he did not treat me well.i feel like not raising my objection to his behaviour is weak on my part...How does DB advise to deal with this without negating all the tongue biting I have been doing. .
