Well, it seems you're at a cross-roads in the journey. A touch point with a counsellor may be a helpful interaction. If nothing else, it could help to clarify your thoughts and feelings to yourself.
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Whilst I have read so much on MLC I am not sure now how to handle the current sitch. Do I carry on as I am, am I thinking too much into this or do I need to stop dropping the rope (its been about 12 months, sitch now nearly 2 years) and start to work on building a connection with her again.
When I was a younger man, I didn't think I needed so much help. As I am older now (than I was), I realize that it helps to have as much input as I can get. Not that I'm not certain of myself or my feelings, but rather it seems helpful to gain input from various areas of my life.
Make sense?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
