Listen to Wonka. Matt , my h said," I don't want this marriage to work." Then a couple of days later in heaving sobs h said, " I'm not doing any work. There is nothing wrong with me. I'll go to MC but I'm not going to do what she says and I'm not going to try to fix anything because it's all you." This was followed up with ," I have no idea how you can function being so rational." Alrighty then.
I hi-jacked and I'm sorry. My point is, I don't think most are capable of working on the m. It's just * easier * to get OW or OM and portray themselves the way they want to them. And that probably has some unfortunate consequences down the road. I know it sounds crazy, but your W probably doesn't have the capacity to work on the M. Let her go. She has to walk this path and all that goes with it.
Hang in there:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
