Thx Wonka. Pulling back is what I'm doing. Although one issue I have is when I do that sometimes H starts questioning and pointing the finger at me like 'Whats the matter, YOU see off?' I know that I'm supposed to be light and say something like 'Oh, I've just been busy' but I am a sucky, sucky, SUCKY liar so it never comes off at I think it's supposed to. Any other suggestions on what I say if he questions MY pulling away?

H's BD is next Sunday. Suggestions very welcome! :-)

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14