I found this site a couple of days after BD. Admittedly, I arrogantly thought my sitch would be different. Then I realized these stories have eerie similarities and "scripts." I have decided to just be cordial, focus on me and the kids, work on things I need to, and let h be. He is on a journey that I wasn't invited to and I'm okay with that now. Be cordial to your h and live your life. The high roadster not have much traffic, but it really is the best option. Even when it can be extremely challenging.
And I couldn't agree with you more. The more people proclaim how * happy* they are on social media, the less likely they are to be truly * happy.* When you are truly happy, constant proclamations aren't necessary. Hang in there! You are doing great. I feel a shift in your thinking.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer