Reminder and a question: What kind of relationship (not romantic, of course, that's off the table at the moment) can I have with him if I don't know if he's still in contact with OW? I should assume he is because there is no reason he wouldn't be that I know of. And even if he said he weren't, I wouldn't be able to believe him, he lied about it all through the first half of this year, including during MC. That is in fact a huge barrier to reconciliation even if he were to ask about one.
So what do I expect from him? Answer: I should expect nothing, and proceed as though I am going to get nothing, and wait until he offers something real. Which could very possibly be never.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
