OK, this separation thing is a gift of time, right?

It is a period I can use to grow and improve myself. It is space from a situation that requires effort to detach from.

It is a gift I'm giving to H to grow and find himself too.

It's an opportunity for us to learn to communicate with one another in a more positive way, and the side bonus of that could potentially be reconciliation.

So why am I so upset at the distance between us if this is such a positive time? He has been friendly to me. He has been courteous and respectful of my time.

Why on earth would I want my old life back and be frustrated at this day???


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.