OK, this separation thing is a gift of time, right?
It is a period I can use to grow and improve myself. It is space from a situation that requires effort to detach from.
It is a gift I'm giving to H to grow and find himself too.
It's an opportunity for us to learn to communicate with one another in a more positive way, and the side bonus of that could potentially be reconciliation.
So why am I so upset at the distance between us if this is such a positive time? He has been friendly to me. He has been courteous and respectful of my time.
Why on earth would I want my old life back and be frustrated at this day???
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15