Sorry somehow I missed this post. I'm working on my life, GAL, to help me continue to detach. I am still very much a work in progress. I need to realize I cannot hang on to hope of him 'waking up' or realizing the mistake I think he is making because to him it is not a mistake (not currently at least).
I do feel as though I am making progress. It took me awhile but I do. H sent pictures of the boys for the first time since before he left the other night. He initiated text the last 2 days. I don't mean this as me reading into it and I feel indifferent towards it. I feel better because I didn't feel a need to push the conversation and I didn't really care to hear from him (I was happy to see the boys pictures )
Thank you for taking the time to reach out to me
Excellent! You are indeed making progress. Feels a little bit better, doesn't it?
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13