Mind reading will get you into trouble and cause you nothing but grief. You do not know if she was crying over guilt or found out some ones puppy died. I know it is tough to hide emotions, especially when it involves your kids. But next time try not to make comments like you are sorry she could not find happiness with you. That is pursuing, and makes you look weak. You do not know for sure she could not find happiness with you. She is going through a tough time, and does not even know for herself where her unhappiness comes from. So no point in TELLING her or ADMITTING you are the one who made her unhappy. Let her figure things out on her own. Be the confident guy who knows how to make people happy. And no initiating touching...ie shoulder touches.
Not trying to be bossy or hard on you. I have followed your thread from the beginning. You are gonna be just fine. Just remember the rules to DB and be consistent.
Best of luck!
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16