...but why NOT mention the OP to your children? Sure, take 50% of the blame for the breakdown of your M. But I would NEVER - ESPECIALLY in front of my children - accept 50% of the blame for a D that is happening because of an A. I wouldn't accept even 1% of the blame for that. ...
The issue here as I see it is that she say the D would happen even if the A didn't happen. This is what she's told me and what I believe she tells everyone else. The fact is though that she still told me she loved me right up to the day I confronted her. The Fact is that we still has sex even after the confrontation. The fact is that I had NO idea she was feeling this way because I would ask her all the time and she would say everything was fine. We still laughed and planned for the future until the confrontation. I must believe that the D IS because I discovered the A.
