What is the question and who are you directing it to?
Haha...You didn't get the question in that total ramble? Sorry. The question was just directed to the general knowledge base here. I would LOVE your feedback, Sandi2! (You tell it like it is, which is good for me...)
Question: Does it matter WHEN you start to 180? And is one supposed to 180 everything? I was under the impression that one should try a few 180s...Stick with those that work, and drop those that don't.
My H says that "I'm practically perfect in every way." I've identified some things that he didn't like (I didn't spend time with him in the evenings) and 180ed those issues.
If I 180 something (like no longer making his breakfast) I can see that he might gain appreciation for the fact that he was spoiled...But what if he asks Why? What's the answer? Yes, it would make him see me in a new light....But clearly that can't be my response.
We never really seemed to have spats until OW entered the picture. Our relationship seemed very symbiotic. And while all of our arguments about OW were the same (and fruitless - shocker), my 180 on that is to simply drop the rope and STFU. Get a life. I have NO influence over that arena....
