It seems everyday she asks me the same questions - How can you love me when I don't love you, not attracted to you, and don't respect you? She keeps asking what are you going to do since there is no emotional connection? I respond that it is her decision. I know how I feel and what I want. She keeps tell me I will not fulfil her emotional needs and there is someone out there for me. I do not know what to say to that any more. I keep repeated the same party line, "you may feel that way, but I do not feel that way." I am giving her space, but she still wants me to be part of the family activities. This is the hardest thing to do at times. I understand my lack of communication and selfishness pushed her away, I am truly sorry for that. My only way is to detach further, but how? Another difficult thing is to be around mutual friends right now. It seems none of them know.
