I have everything documented from the start. My IC told me to journal from the start. I am close to getting a restraining order. It is difficult here. He has to hit me or I need to feel like my life is in danger. Right now he is acting nice, but will get upset as we go further. I am prepared for anything. I have been through so much crap the last year, that I got this. My lawyer gave me a good pep talk. No one can treat me this way.