Peter,

I would think if she wanted to cuddle in bed to let it happen. Simply because she will feel comfortable, safe, and content. Dont get me wrong, I am not trying to say I know better than you. I honestly do not know the right move in this situation.

Even when my W was in the middle of her EA possible PA I would let her hug me and cuddle. This was prior to me knowing about DB. But even if I had to do it over, I would do the same simply because it reminds them of what they do like about you.


Last edited by pilot; 06/28/14 05:24 PM.

Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16