Bug, slap me if I'm wrong, but I can speak for myself that the things I spoke as the "truth" were often very far from it. I chose only to see things through my distorted lens. Once I actually saw things from other perspectives, it was nothing short of devastating.
I agree with this 100%. I had so much fear which colored all my Rs, all my reactions, all my thoughts.
Do go to an AlAnon group that's close to you but if it doesn't work, keep searching. I traveled all around my city finding good fits. I had 3 groups I liked to attend which was good since I have a work schedule that makes it difficult to go to a mtg on consistent days and times.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
