It seems from your words that you and your H aren't compatible, but you have a strong bond. It seems you have 2 choices, you either learn to live with the differences or be unhappy.
Slow down and let all the past stuff go. What is it you really want?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
