I apologize if that somehow offended you. It honestly was a joke. It has nothing to do with me not respecting women or anything like that. I just like to have a little fun and try to make people laugh. Im not sure how you could even take offense to that though. In that referrence it was saying how young girls like to scream with joy.
The perfect nonapology apology.
Drop the defense and open up a bit when people say things that you may not agree with, ask questions, find out more. If they say something offended them, it did, it's their truth. It's not helpful to try to explain it away.
Communication is about trying to understand the other person. DBing is about changing to our core in deed, action, thought and communication.
If no one ever tells you those kinds of remarks are offensive then you never know. I choose not to be offended by what you said but I would guess these types of interactions are a part of your communication. The need to be right, the apology that contains the undertone of "but I don't think I did anything wrong."
As I said I hope you can dig deep and figure this one out. Read back through your threads and see the other examples.
The choice is yours.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
