She says she's conflicted

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LET - IT - GO

You really don't see how much this consumes you do you? The anger and hatred coming off of you is unbelievable. That's why you get into so many arguments with your W. That's all you concentrate on.

You keep insisting that you're the better person but you have the same anger and control problems he does. Both of you want to WIN.

If you're the better person, then BE the better person.

Me.Bond
I have to thank you for your insite. It's refreshing that you have me pegged in this way.

I realize what you are saying and this morning things between us have been great.

I have even bit my tongue about asking what happened when she told OM she did not want him coming to the USA and that he should keep the relationship long distance for now.
I agree I have to be the calmer more loving but independent and definitely not angry or needy guy.

I am serious when I say thank you !