I had an interesting evening . She came home on time for supper . Made supper and was in a fairly good mood . I ate and then left till 9pm came home and seen the boys off to bed . Then I got a coat and boots on and said im going out > She asked me where I was going and I just said I need to go for a ride on my Harley and thats what I did . I got home at1am . She had the blankets pulled back for me to get into bed . So i got in and rolled away from her to go to sleep .She rolled over to me and tried to cuddle but I pretended not to care ( even though it was tearing me up inside , I wanted to roll over and hold her sooo bad )i stayed in bed this morning and slept . Then she usually leaves for town with out saying goodbye ,or where shes goin or anything . But this morning she felt the need to come down and wake me up and tell me she was going to town and the things she had to do , then gave me a hug .Wow , that wasnt expected . My question is , and it may not matter but did she behave like that because of me pulling away ( DBing ) or was she being like that because she feels guilty because shes going to town to be with OM ?


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )