I hate this time, the twins are ready for bed, and we agreed early in the s, that whoever had the boys, they would ring the other so that they could say goodnight... which means for the next 3 nights I have to ring h so the boys can say goodnight to their dad, I never know how to behave, I usually say hi and tell him who help talking to, then when they've spoken to their dad, I speak briefly, how their days gone etc, and I'm trying to remover the rules about phone conversation, to not say much and listen and don't ask questions, he seems to want to talk, asked what I was doing tonight, I replied with "I'm having a big night out" he said "oh you've organised a babysitter?" So I replied no, I'm just kidding, huge night of watching tv" then I said I better go, and ttied to hang up as he was saying "have a good night" I so wanted to ask what he was doing, how was work, but I know or I think I know that's not a good idea, this [censored] balls
