^^^^ What he said. Forget about what she is doing completely. Focus completely on yourself and your life. The quicker you purge her from your mind, the quicker you will see results...if there are results to be seen.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16