I've been thinking. She accused me of always wanting to get my way. Of being persistent to the point of annoyance just to get my way. That "way" being reconciliation. In a belated response to that I was thinking of telling her "would you prefer that I just give up because you're not worth it and the marriage is not worth saving, or would you rather that I fight to preserve our marriage because you're worth it and you're the most important person in the world to me?" Does that come across as pursuing?
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014