I've been thinking. She accused me of always wanting to get my way. Of being persistent to the point of annoyance just to get my way. That "way" being reconciliation.
In a belated response to that I was thinking of telling her "would you prefer that I just give up because you're not worth it and the marriage is not worth saving, or would you rather that I fight to preserve our marriage because you're worth it and you're the most important person in the world to me?"
Does that come across as pursuing?


M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014