Pete I am confused , If i am detaching how can I fill the love bucket with 8 to 15 hrs a week ? This must be for when the affair is over ??? I thought DBing was being scarce and unavailable .


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )