and she sounds like she is terrified to leave you...
Not conflicted but terrified to leave...like she must appease you
that's a sad commentary
That she is willing to pretend and appease you because she is afraid
Wow wait a minute , I never assaulted my wife. I never ever hit her or anything like that never ever. We would argue, she would push me or hit me, she would walk away I would toss whatever was in my hand at her .. 99.9% of the time it neve even landed close to her. She is rewriting history!
And the rape thing is BS.. She was wearing a lingerie, she seduced me ! I told her I did not want to be wi her she had been with other man... The rape thing is coming from her OM because if the way the act ended ...he was hoping to get some finally as a going away present and I destroyed that.
All of the therapists including hers has said she has re written what happened. I am giving you her perception. And I know that's all that counts.
Please don't forget. She ran away,she moved in with OM, she asked for a divorce.
It was her choice to move home, her choice to share the marital bed with me..none of this not one bit was forced on her.
If she wanted to leave tomorrow I would not stop her.
I am not looking to win! Unless you can get in my head and understand how I feel about this woman, don't tell me it's a desire to win..
I love her enough to let her go...if that's what she wants...
I have been working on me.
I came to this board to get advice on what I can do...how I can manage what's happening... Oh she cancelled the big "D" not me!
