I've felt for a long while that you and your H were on the road to reconciliation. What's most telling: the changes we are (he is) watching you make in YOU. And how he responds when you're paying attention to yourself and your GAL.
I know there's all sorts of uncertainty. But I honestly think you're H is soooo close.
And please listen to Wonka's suggestions. That girl put me in heels (well, wedges) one weekend, and H broke up with his OW the following day.
You're doing so awesome, mdu. I really think you're doing things just right now.
Hang tight. And wait for him to bite. It's coming. I just know it.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014