negative voice creeping in

[Ben2010]

I think that if you can find a way to "actually" forgive here like 25 is saying, then you might have a chance to make this work. There is no way it will work if you dont though. That means once you forgive him for it, you never bring it up again, at least not in an argument to throw in his face. Its also something that you need to do for yourself to heal. Im sure you honestly think that sometimes when he is out that he is with someone else. I would find some sort of resource that will help you with this. I know in my anger management, it deals with forgiveness alot. I dunno just a thought.