CMF my wife does the same..before when I would not agree with her it was because im selfish and I will never change and that is why she has too divorce me, remember they are justifying to themselves why they are doing what they are doing...stay cool and calm and I bet he calms down as well...I finally did that last week and low and behold my W now talks to me somewhat normal...she still talks pooh behind my back but we don't fight anymore, I think that the more interactions they have with us that are pleasant, eventually they will start to think. stay strong Girl, we got your back
I completely agree with this. If you can remain calm during your talks, it makes it hard for your spouse to keep yelling or getting angry. You need to mix in some validation and just listen. Eventually they will calm down and you can have a civil conversation.
M:33 W:30 T:10 M:2 B/D: 5/27/14 S: 5/28/14 Wife moved back in 7/18/14
