Thanks for recommendations db2013, I think I read the original article but definitely worth a re read.:) Ben, I get what your saying, I have had serious jealousy issues over the past few years, after the first time h cheated, I told him and myself that I was over it, but then in truth I wasn't, I punished for the next 5 years, and in between that his father passed away very suddenly, we had twins, the usual roller coaster, he's 7 yrs younger than me and I think that plays a part too, we got together when he was 22 and maybe that's part of it too, he says he still loves me but there's nothing else there. .. sorry for the scattered reply
