Lol...well i wasnt trying to make you cry. I hope that helps though. I can tell you that is pretty much my thought process in that sitch. And I am not one of those people that really regrets breaking up with girls or things like that, especially when they continue to bother me about it.

Before we got married I broke up with my W. Told her that she was too clingy and jealous and questioning. For the first week, she called me, spied on me, called my friends and drove by their houses to see what I was doing or who I was with. That of course annoyed me alot. I didnt want to talk to her and just to get her to leave me alone I would have to say pretty mean and hurtful things to her. I ended up talking to some other girl around this time. The now W found out and really lost it. It was at that point that she just stopped calling me or doing any of that stalker stuff. She didnt call me for a week or so after that. I started to wonder what she was doing that was keeping her away from me. I texted her and she told me that she was at her cousins house for the week. The jealous side of me came out a bit and somehow we ended up talking about having sex and she started texting me things that she wanted to do to me. Keep in mind that she was in church at the time too...Of course that really got to me and it was all about timing then. I told her to come over so we could have sex but also told her that it didnt mean that we were back together. Of course it did mean that though eventually. I immediately stopped talking to that other girl because she did it the right way and got me interested in her again.

Not sure if that will help you at all as it seems kind of juvenile now that Im reading it back, but that is basically how the situation worked. It has some elements of her detachment in there and GAL.

Last edited by Ben2010; 06/27/14 11:50 PM.
M:33
W:30
T:10 M:2
B/D: 5/27/14
S: 5/28/14
Wife moved back in 7/18/14