Ok, how am I going to work on my Marriage if shes still communicating with OM.
You can't. She will be emotionally blocked to you. This is why everyone is telling you to WORK ON YOURSELF right now.
There will be a time, hopefully, when you can work on your marriage later. This is not that time.
Starsky
Maybe it's semantics, but I think working on yourself IS ALL YOU CAN DO FOR YOUR MARRIAGE ANYHOW...(even if OM did not exist!!!)
you have issues of your own Oxford...Geez, read your own thread.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016