Originally Posted By: watto14
So this morning I wake up and the negative voice is creeping in...my H has finally said to 'let him go' and I have to respectt this but I guess I'm asking, does anyone really rebuild from this, I've read the success stories on here and I understand that I have to work on me, but am I just kidding myself?? Just thinking out loud, any input is more than welcome.


Hi Watto, I hope this helps: I think we all go through the phases of feeling this is all hopeless. You are not alone in this. Try not to make any major decisions when you are at points like this. I made that mistake and wish I could have just ridden it out.

I have been catching up on Mr.Bond's story and followed an old New York Times article he posted about a woman's successful DB journey with her WAH: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/02/fashion/02love.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0

I got her book this week where she details her day to day journey. The book is:'This Is Not the Story You Think It Is...: A Season of Unlikely Happiness'

I just started reading it and boy do I wish I was as deliberate and collected as she was when he dropped the bomb on her.

M:36 W:34
T:9,M:4
Me,WAH:7/2011
My apology:12/2012
Her,WAW:01/2013
ILYBINILWY:4/2013
W's EA:5/2013
Sep:9/2013
2nd EA signs:03/2014