Yes although filing was more for my own sanity. Despite maintaining she wanted it and was going to do it, she never claimed to have time or money to do so.
I'm going to wait a few weeks and not rush that final paperwork.
I had a difficult day yesterday that means I really will have to focus on me. I may possibly have some skin cancer that is postponing my move due to treatment.
We'll see how those tests go.
So far as my wife goes, I have completely let go now. I do still love her with all my heart. The events of the last 18 months haven't changed that. She knows how to contact me.
If she does, she'll find a much happier guy who can make her happy again.
Suspected EA: Feb 2013 Bomb drop: Mid March 2013 Separation: Mid April 2013 (I fought for marriage) Filed for Divorce: April 2014 Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014