ben, really, do you guys notice these things? every time I think I have a handle on this, and leave him alone, he does contact me, but then the doubt creeps in, is it just out of habit, or does he genuinely want to see/talk to me?// aarrrggg...does my head in!!!
Yes we notice it. It might not be as fast as you want it to be, but it does get noticed. You start to wonder why the other person is not calling you anymore. Are they seeing someone else? Are they over me? Why did she suddenly stop calling me?
Especially with someone like you that likes to do the continued calling when we dont answer. At first it feels like a relief, but then it creeps in.
I would not count it for more than what it is though. Dont jump to the conclusion that he wants to see you all of a sudden. More than likely he will just be checking up on you at first to see if one of his suspicions is right. All you have to do at that point to keep him calling or coming around is to be mysterious. Dont provide too much information about what youre up to. He thinks that he knows you and when you do something that is unexpected, it will make things change. I can almost certainly tell you that he is not calling you out of habit. If he is calling right now then he wants to talk/see what youre doing.
M:33 W:30 T:10 M:2 B/D: 5/27/14 S: 5/28/14 Wife moved back in 7/18/14
