Phew....It's night time over in Europe. This is normally when H and I talk to one another, and have talked to one another every night for the last two weeks.
Tonight he is silent.
And I'm letting him be silent.
But, of course, I fear he is silent because he is with OW, who was in the UK this week for work as well.
There's nothing I can do about this. And, a new behavior for me would be to NOT confront him about my fear that he's with her.
Another new behavior (per the DR book) will be for me to be calm and pleasant when he returns on Monday. I'm going to have to dig deep for that, too.
Where have people gotten the strength to do this? Seriously?
