25 I think your right. My h loves the attention and the more I try and do on my own the less energy I have for him. Right now I guess I am not supposed to be giving him ANY attention.

I told him this morning that he needs to move out, that I can't do this roommate thing. In an email later this afternoon I explained myself a little better and ended it by saying IF he decided he wanted our marriage that we could discuss that later but that I was worth more than being plan B.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction