She says she's conflicted

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So what if she fell for a well to do professional business man who truly fell in love with her?

Would that make this any easier? If he was a " good guy" ?

Any guy would have been a fake phony fraud , right?

No, I would have been upset, but this is ridiculous.
Seriously if she saw him on the beach or even in town she would have either made a disparaging remark about him to me or she would have just looked the other way.

She also decided that she's not ever going to live in Israel. She likes her job, her sons and family are here and she just does not want to move there.

She then says he never wants to live here.
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Then she says they will marry and he will do whatever she wants him to do...

She can't even convince him to not come to the USA this summer!