Do what you have to for your kids. Relationship and DB be damned. Kids are always first. If your D wants to have a family dinner then have a family dinner. If it was just your W pushing it, then I would not feel the pressure.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16