Tough call. Having a family dinner and you putting your best foot forward can be a benefit true. She may be cake eating. I dont know. You have to make the call. It maybe one of those times you decline her invitation.

I know I am no help on this one...sorry.

Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16