She says she's conflicted

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She called me from work like a wife would call.

Normal conversation. Tells me she loves me. I tell her I don't want to be the reason she cries. She says, that's impossible in the next 20 years she can't see something not happening that would make her cry.

So one minute she's ready to leave the next 20 years?

I guess I need to listen acknowledge and ignore all at the same time