Advice Needed- setting boundaries

[Sam3]

Thanks MLP. And I saw some similarities with my story and yours.

If anyone else feels like I might push him into making this a permanent decision; he has been coming home every weekend. But since I told him he was free to leave & it might be best for a while, he said I could have kids July 4 weekend that he would not come home. And we could start only coming home every other weekend.

Is this forcing him into making a permanent decision? I feel like we need some space. I need to detach more without playing family every weekend like normal while he is with someone else during the week.

I was thinking tough love is a better option in my stitch because my husband has never had any boundaries. Thoughts???