Thanks oad! You are right. Detaching is 90% of the battle on this journey.Today is going more smooth as I am out driving alot of junk to our landfill sites so I am hardly here with WAW.

My therapist friend also encouraged me:
"Remember, FEAR, once it has activated our physiology, FEELS incredibly True, even when it is not."

So today as I started to feel terrified of the finality of this separation that feels a hell of alot like a divorce....bank accounts closed, cars divided...all bills separated so "we are so done" with everything and "never ever going to get back together"...I have to remember all the db work I am doing and that it ain't over till I SAY its over. These fears only become real if I let them. I choose to courageously and fearlessly do my 180 with you fine warriors & warrioresses of the DB Round table. so there. Moving truck somes tomorrow. only 2 more days to go

Me 42 W:35
M: 14yrs T:15yrs
D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs
BD: "I want a D"09/03/14
Sep: 30/06/14

Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.