Saw your posting in IH about you being down. I know it can be tough when NC but that is WHY you need to detach. And I know it is easier said than done. But when you do, you WILL find that calmness which will go along way in making things better for you...regardless of how your relationship ends up. Remember, it is the LBS who truly detach who have the greatest success in winning their partner back. Really and truly work on it. GAL is the best way. You can do it.
And quit trying to second guess why your fiance is doing this. I know it might help you feel better to assume maybe she thinks she feels she isnt good enough for you or will be bringing you down. But odds are that is not the case, and those thoughts will only pollute your DB efforts as well as make it harder to detach.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
