Tough call. Perhaps going over your budget with her. Be careful not to seem controlling, but at the same time, protect yourself financially. Wait for another to chime in on this one. I am not sure I know the right move....


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16