yesterday... he was a little teary & upset/concerned & talked to me about his concerns about being an only child & having to "care" for elderly parents. I just sat & listened. I did NOT say what I wanted & would have normally said "yes, this is what I thought we would be doing together, caring for our parents when needed or the time came"... I just listened. I can tell he is fearful that now he is 50 & taking care of his mom, this is what he wanted to avoid & will now be doing it "alone". >>>> DOESNT HE REALIZE I WANT TO BE PART OF HIS LIFE & WOULD HELP??
He left work early to go pick up his mom after surgery at the hospital, but ended up sitting there till 9:30 (as she had pain issues, they decided to keep her overnight)... he was texting my DD at the time & not once did he mention he was still at the hospital or that his mom was being kept overnight. <<<< Yes, it bugs me that he didn't tell me or her.
When he told me this morning... I didn't persist to ask WHY.
My mom says this is a "good thing" and that I didn't ask why too... I just don't see fully how & she is not good at explaining it.... any ideas?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
