Look, I know you love your wife and all, but considering her mental and emotional state, and her unrepentant infidelity . . . and how reactive you are to it all . . .
I personally don't see how you can even BEGIN to work on your own (considerable) issues while with her. Not in her current state.
I hate to say this, but I actually think you might BOTH be better divorced, work on your own stuff, maybe start dating each other again down the road after you're both in more healthy places, and who knows, maybe you end up back together?
About 20% of divorced couples do.
Starsky
that why now I say she should have got an apartment I could have gone completely dark, pushed her towards OM and let her see hes a freging nut job.
Why I even fight for her anymore I don't know...
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
