Finally found DB...New here

[pilot]

There ya go! I know what you mean about not being able to get out of your own way. You will find most people here have shared the same emotions you are going through so they really understand how you feel. I found it super helpful to read older threads in here. From start to finish. It lets me see how things could possibly progress for me. Amazingly many of the stories all follow a similar pattern. Learn from what others have done right and try to avoid what they did wrong.

Post often and post in other people's threads so they get to know you and read your story, and thereby offer support to you.

Best of luck!