You have all the answers throughout your threads, 1Wish. Go back through, reread the advice you've been given and mull it over for a couple of days. Really take in that last post from 25 as well.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014