if im being honest before she decided to drop the bomb I myself was thinking of leaving her.. doesnt make sense.. we fell apart.
Don't you think she might have sensed that and she's like why do I want to be with somebody who isn't fully committed. I don't know what's going to happen for now, but in the future you need to be all the way in or all the way out. Don't sit on the fence.
Or are you just mad that you didn't get to break up with her first?
Originally Posted By: 1Wish
"The one thing every successful DBer does, is become a better, stronger person."
I just hope I dont hang on to a false hope too long.. when would it be time to let go? When the divorce is finalised right?
First you need to let go of any expectations. Let go of the outcome. You should want to become the best person you can be anyway, whether she comes back or not, whether you find somebody else or not. You're way too worried about the future. Just worry about today. What are you going to do this day?
No im not mad.. I was withdrawing due to her shouting and nagging all the time and thought to myself I dont need this.. I loved her and everything but when she asked for a D it all changed n I forgot all the bad..
I love her and want this to work.. and I really dont know whats going to happen.. I feel if I sont maintain contact she will get over me and go.. you know what they say.. out of mind out of sight.. I know they also say distance makes the heart grow fonder.. but thats only for a short while is it not..
