That squirrel analogy is fantastic. I'm in the same boat as you right now Scorp; doing my own thing, enjoying time with my kids and being patient with my wife. Keep living your life and keep building that trust. I'm glad to see where you are compared to where you've come from.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014