That's what I think too oad, as much as it pains me, because I hate saying no to h, I know that's what I have to do, he just rang up before to tell me he's got next wed off work to take the twins out for their 3rd b day, I'd told him last week that I would be spending the day with them, must say I'm surprised he's actually taking the day off, and then he started 5 ask how my day was going, I just said good, busy and tried to politely end the call and he wanted to keep talking??!!